Don't Purchase the Wrong House!
Are You Really Ready for the First Day of School?

There are all sorts of products on the market to help you get a handle on back-to-school organizational needs.
Here’
s a look at a few:Charging station.
Are chargers for cell phones, MP3 players and game systems taking over outlets around your house? Can you never find the charger that fits your cell phone? Check out two-level charging stations from stores like Bed Bath and Beyond. It can store up to four devices for charging and features a pull-out accessory drawer and side pocket for storing wires.Light and storage.
Desk lamp organizers offer light to study and a place to hold your pens, paper clips and other goodies.Crates everywhere.
Everybody needs a couple of plastic crates. They are great for holding soccer cleats and shin guards in the garage or filing notes for term papers. These stacking plastic crates hold letter or legal hanging files and they lock together to stack or make cubes. They also can be used with casters to move around your room.Everything in its place.
Back to school means lots of slips of paper. Keep them organized in a mini case file. Accordion-style file cases come with a handle on top so you can take it with you to sort coupons or receipts while you’re waiting in the carpool line.Style and storage.
Storage becomes stylish with furniture like ottomans that include tops that pop off to stow away books or anything else.Keeping track.
Back to school means back to schedules. There are all sorts of options available for keeping you on task. Dry-erase boards are available in plenty of shapes and sizes. Just fill in your appointments, soccer games and test dates. Then wipe them clean.Too many wires.
Do those wires seem to be multiplying under your computer desk or entertainment system? And how do they get so tangled? Try a wire organizer grommet, which hides tangled wires and cables with three adjustable openings.Too many plugs.
Try using a power cord which converts one grounded outlet into five flexible adapter-ready outlets. It also has a master power switch.Some of the warning signs listed below are systematic of normal teenage behavior. If you notice suddenly that more
can be seen together and/or extreme in nature there could be a drinking problem.
Difference in the reaction to questions or just out of nowhere: temper outbreaks, irritability,
and defensiveness.
School problems: skipping school and classes, low grades, could care less attitude about turning in homework, showing no respect to those in authority in the school, can not be controlled in the classroom, no respect
to those who are older.
Attitude that I’m old enough to do what I want to and not follow anything their parents set down as to limits
and restrictions.
Hanging out with a different crowd, when asked about previous friends - there’s no comment or a shrug of
a shoulder. When asked to bring the one’s who they are currently hanging out with home so that you can
meet them. You receive: "Why are you always on my back or into my business, don’t I have the right to
chose who I hang out with?"
Sluggish, hobbies or interests no longer hold your teen(s) attention, dressing like `Who done it’ - sloppy,
unkempt, no interest in life at all.
Intentionally or by accident finding alcohol or in your child’s room, backpack or smelling it on their breath.
*Young ones think that they have rights and going into their rooms or things is a breach of those rights.
They don’t pay rent, they don’t buy food, they have no money to buy their entertainment wants, they
don’t buy their clothes and if it were not for their parents or guardians paying the rent or mortgage, they
would have no where to live, under any or all of these so-called rights - they have none. * In some states
if a teenager wants to run away from home and takes their clothes that they did not buy, they can be
picked up for larceny.
Hard to remember what they were told by you the next day and forget about a week ago, it is difficult to concentrate or be focused, eyes are bloodshot, lack of coordination or slurred speech.
We must reiterate that some of these strange behaviors are just normal to being a teenager such as lack of memory or
falling and stumbling over things. It is the combination of the above behavioral changes that parents must be on the lookout.
It is hard for some teenagers to believe that their parents or any adult knows anything.
There is nothing new under the sun, for many adults they have done that, been there and don’t want to do any of it
again. We do know what we are talking about and even if we never experienced it there is someone that we know
who has.
Help
Focus Adolescent Services Phone# 410.341.4216
Call us and we will Listen to you, Answer your questions and Direct you to helping resources. http://www.focusas.com
Substance Abuse - Teenage Drinking.
http://privateschool.about.com/cs/forparentsonly/a/teendrinking.htmSubstance Abuse - Teaching Teens to Cope.
http://privateschool.about.comStop Underage Drinking Phone# 800.729.6686.
http://www.stopalcoholabuse.gov/parents.aspx
We feel strongly that teenagers should receive the best of life. This is one way to make sure that this happens.
For all the young people out there who believe that drinking a lot of alcohol does not lead to adverse life changes
Fact: Alcohol is a drug which can become addictive.
Fact: Alcohol can interfere with the growth function of the brain in young folks. It is obvious that drugs that affect the pleasure functions of the brain can also limit the growth of the brain in a young person. What drinking does to the brain is damaging to brain cells. If you are going to make it in this crazy world, you need all of your faculties that the brain produces for rational, focused thought.
Fact: Alcohol for a youth who starts drinking early can become a lifelong habit. Amazingly, young folks who start drinking at an early age are four times more likely to develop alcohol dependence. It is hard to break from the dependence on alcohol because it makes the pain, thoughts, and actions dull into, not only no pain but I’m feeling good, my senses are heightened, and everybody likes me when I’m high. Then there comes the time when alcohol does not give the same buzz anymore, it’s harder to get drunk to the point of oblivion. A friend suggests that you can get to a higher state of oblivion by trying hallucinatory drugs and the real hard stuff like crack, heroin, etc.
Fact: Alcohol drinking started at an early age may lead to the thought process that: "If I’m holding my own when hanging out with my friends, I surely can imbibe a lot more. You know, I can stop drinking anytime I want too." Majority of youth when binging means five or more drinks in the case of teenage boys and in the case of teenage girls, four or more drinks.
Fact: When young folks drink they are more likely to be victims of violent crime. Yes, things like rape, aggravated assault and robbery. Why? Peer Pressure. It’s easy to pass out when drinking a lot of alcohol and waking up with no idea of what happened the night before or the blurry knowledge that something did happen that makes you feel sick such as being raped. High tolerance for alcohol is attained quicker for a teenager. So you need more and the more you need, the likely hood of doing something regrettable may happen, like contracting HIV, AIDS, Herpes, Sexually Transmitted Diseases. We know: "It will never happen to you!"
Fact: Drive drunk and physically damage yourself, passengers and there is always the possibility of causing many deaths even your own.
So you’ve heard this all before, just in case you need help call 540.741.3900 or go to
www.snowdenmentalhealth.comAlcohol Anonymous: www.aa.org
Substance Abuse and Addiction Recovery Alliance of Virginia:
www.saara.orgJust because this information is regional, it is for all teenagers and there is help out there for you.
Teen Help 411:
www.child.nethttp://www.child.net/teenhelpNational Domestic Violence Hotline: 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)
Teenage Dating Abuse: www.loveisrespect.org
http://www.loveisrespect.org/Teen Suicide Prevention: www.teendepression.org
Teens Helping Teens:
www.teencentral.netHope this helps some teenager out there.
Our Concern is you.
Larry and Madeline
CLOUDS FOR REAL ESTATE MARKET!
U.S. house prices will fall by as much as 20 percent nationally and the current mortgage finance crisis is about half-way through, the chief of major mortgage financier Freddie Mac said Wednesday.
“Previously, we said house prices would fall at least 15 percent nationally, peak to trough. Today’s challenging economic environment suggests that the housing market is far from stabilizing,” Richard Syron, the chairman and CEO of Freddie Mac, told investors in a conference call held to discuss the company’s earnings.
“As a result, we now believe that national home prices will fall 18 to 20 percent peak to trough. … The long and short of it is that we now think that we are half-way through the overall peak-to-trough decline.”
HREU 8.6.2008
It does help those who want to purchase a home, but you must have a good credit score. They will help you to repair your credit to purchase a home. For many people the program has worked out quite well. It may work out for you.
It is a non-profit organization. The folks that help are counselors and not lenders, so they do not originate the mortgage loan. Their focus is to help First-Time home buyers and those who do not own a home to be in a position to purchase. There is a wait. If you know that it takes more than 9 weeks ahead of time, you are better prepared to work with NACA.
Here’s a link that you might find of interest:
HTTP://www.city-data.com/forum/Charlotte/36954-has-anyone-used-naca-home-buyers.html
This I found interesting information on the NACA website and here is where you see that you don’t get something for nothing.
You cannot buy a home that is not on their service map. This means that if you want to purchase in area not covered in their service areas, you can not use this program. typed 22407 the closet service area is
The workshop is free. In order to participate in the program requires money and commitments.
To be a member, all members of the family must sign a Member agreement and authorization agreement, which you cannot access from the website to find out what they are.
When you go to see a Mortgage Consultant there is a fee you must pay $20 that is as of the year 2007. After you find your house you must now pay a fee of $50 a month between 5 or 7 years. What’s up with that?
Just as we said at the beginning of this blog it sounds too good to be true. On their website is an explanation for this fee. Even on the website is a statement that many people say it sounds too good to be true, Wonder why? What does that tell you? You get so much in return, according to the statements. Why would you not become a member of NACA’ program?
You must live in the house and that is not an unusual request. As long as you live in the home, you must pay and be in this NACA’s program. If you decide to go with another lender, NACA will put a lien on your home and there other methods that is included, so you know they mean business. There’s more on NACA’s website, please take the time to go through the site.
There is also a requirement that for 5 years you must participate in 5 or more groups a year that make the services free. That is the only way you can avail yourself of NACA’s program. You can’t just say that you will participate, you also must sign a Participation Pledge that you will do so.
Before you go to their free program coming to you, please check out NACA’s website.
You don’t get something for nothing.
The Buyers Guide to Your Own Home
Before you purchase a home you must be aware of your finances, credit score and employment stability so that the decision you make is the right one.
Things to know when a Zero Down Payment is your only option to become a
Homeowner:
Here are some of the questions you may want to pen down before you analyze your financing options:
Here are 9 ways to make this transaction work:
Visit http://www.hud.gov/buying/ to see the full report from Housing and Urban
Development regarding Buying a Home in 2008.
The Internet offers many valuable articles and press releases for first time buyers and investment opportunists. Below is a list of links that will assist you through the transaction process.
http://homebuying.about.com/http://www.homebuyingtips.net/
http://www.hud.gov/offices/hsg/sfh/buying/buyhm.cfm
(U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development’s 100 Questions & Answers about Buying a New Home)
These links are several great places to begin your preparation for becoming a Homeowner.
"All information in this report is deemed reliable, but not guaranteed."
© 2008
PropertyMinder, Inc.

Questions & Answers for Reservists, Guardsmen and Other Military Personnel
Regarding mortgage payment relief and protection from foreclosure provided by the Service members Civil Relief Act (formerly known as The Soldiers' and Sailors' Civil Relief Act of 1940).
Who Is Eligible?
The provisions of the Act apply to active duty military personnel who had a mortgage obligation prior to enlistment or prior to being ordered to active duty. This includes members of the Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force, Coast Guard; commissioned officers of the Public Health Service and the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration who are engaged in active service; reservists ordered to report for military service; persons ordered to report for induction under the Military Selective Service Act; and guardsmen called to active service for more than 30 consecutive days. In limited situations, dependents of service members are also entitled to protections.
Am I Entitled To Debt Payment Relief?
The Act limits the interest that may be charged on mortgages incurred by a service member (including debts incurred jointly with a spouse) before he or she entered into active military service. Mortgage lenders must, at your request, reduce the interest rate to no more than six percent per year during the period of active military service and recalculate your payments to reflect the lower rate. This provision applies to both conventional and government-insured mortgages.
Is The Interest Rate Limitation Automatic?
No. To request this temporary interest rate reduction, you must submit a written request to your mortgage lender and include a copy of your military orders. The request may be submitted as soon as the orders are issued but must be provided to a mortgage lender no later than 180 days after the date of your release from active duty military service.
Am I Eligible Even if I Can Afford To Pay My Mortgage At A Higher Interest Rate?
If a mortgage lender believes that military service has not affected your ability to repay your mortgage, they have the right to ask a court to grant relief from the interest rate reduction. This is not very common.
What If I Can't Afford to Pay My Mortgage Even At the Lower Rate?
Your mortgage lender may allow you to stop paying the principal amount due on your loan during the period of active duty service. Lenders are not required to do this but they generally try to work with service members to keep them in their homes. You will still owe this amount but will not have to repay it until after your complete your active duty service.
Additionally, most lenders have other programs to assist borrowers who cannot make their mortgage payments. If you or your spouse find yourself in this position at any time before or after active duty service, contact your lender immediately and ask about loss mitigation options. Borrowers with FHA insured loans who are having difficulty making mortgage payments may also be eligible for special forbearance and other loss mitigation options. More information about help for homeowners who are unable to make payments on a mortgage is available on the HUD website at HTTP://www.HUD.gov/offices/hsg/sfh/econ/.cfm.
Am I Protected against Foreclosure?
Mortgage lenders may not foreclose, or seize property for a failure to pay a mortgage debt, while a service member is on active duty or within 90 days after the period of military service unless they have the approval of a court. In a court proceeding, the lender would be required to show that the service member's ability to repay the debt was not affected by his or her military service.
What Information Do I Need To Provide To My Lender?
When you or your representative contact your mortgage lender, you should provide the following information:
Notice that you have been called to active duty;
A copy of the orders from the military notifying you of your activation;
Your FHA case number; and
Evidence that the debt precedes your activation date.
HUD has reminded FHA lenders of their obligation to follow the Act. If notified that a borrower is on active military duty, the lender must advise the borrower or representative of the adjusted amount due, provide adjusted coupons or billings, and ensure that the adjusted payments are not returned as insufficient payments.
Will My Payments Change Later? Will I Need To Pay Back The Interest Rate "Subsidy" At A Later Date?
The change in interest rate is not a subsidy. Interest in excess of 6 percent per year that would otherwise have been charged is forgiven. However, the reduction in the interest rate and monthly payment amount only applies during the period of active duty. Once the period of active military service ends, the interest rate will revert back to the original interest rate, and the payment will be recalculated accordingly.
How Long Does The Benefit Last? Does The Period Begin And End With My Tour Of Duty?
Interest rate reductions are only for the period of active military service. Other benefits, such as postponement of monthly principal payments on the loan and restrictions on foreclosure may begin immediately upon assignment to active military service and end on the third month following the term of active duty assignment.
How Can I Learn More About Relief Available To Active Duty Military Personnel?
Read more information about the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act, sponsored by the Legal Assistance Policy Division, Office of The Judge Advocate General, U.S. Army.
Servicemembers who have questions about the SCRA or the protections that they may be entitled to may contact their unit judge advocate or installation legal assistance officer. Dependents of service members can also contact or visit local military legal assistance offices where they reside. A military legal assistance office locator for each branch of the armed forces is available legalassistance.law.af.mil
For additional information see: http://usmilitary.about.com/cs/sscra/a/scra2_3.htm
Reprinted from HREU 7.25.08
We just read an article from a Realtor® magazine that is encouraging for Realtors®, sellers, and buyers in Virginia.
The fall of the subprime market has caused lenders to come up with strict guidelines for buyers to qualify to purchase a home using a conventional mortgage. Along with the Earnest Money Deposit which is required and is 3% of the sales price of the home, a down payment of 3% is also required. A home $250,000 would require $7500 Earnest Money Deposit and $7500 as a down payment Earnest Money Deposit shows the seller, listing agent and broker that the buyer is very serious about purchasing a home. The cost of closing is approx $12,000. Thus, you need a good credit score which is higher than required for the last few years. Our question is who has $30,000 saved to purchase a home? If you are living from paycheck to paycheck where is this money going to come from? You are not a bad person or some reckless individual (as some would have you to think) for living from paycheck to paycheck, a lot of us are living the very same way.
There is a program for First-Time home buyers who live in Virginia, to help them to purchase a home. For a while the program was not available, but has now been revamped and ready to help. It is called (VHDA)
Virginia Housing Development Authority. They had to get rid of the FlexAlt and Step loans which enabled First-Time home buyers who fell below the accepted credit score to purchase homes through the subprime market.
Don't feel bad as some folks believe that you are pretty much a criminal if you have less than stellar credit score, it happens good people like you are out there struggling. Some mistakes could have been made when first coming out of high school. All of a sudden all of thees credit card applications start flying in. As that young person, you have your first job, you can now go out a buy a car. Oh, yes, you also receive all of those car dealer incentives to come and get you a car that has just come out on the market. You go and do all of these things not knowing when those bills start pouring in and you don't have the money to pay them all, your credit takes a big hit. You had no idea this could happen and now years later when you try to purchase a home, you can't because of your low credit score.
Like a number of programs to help locally to purchase a home already required First-Time home buyers to attend a home buying class before these buyers could receive help. The VHDA now requires that the First-Time home buyer must attend Intro to Homeownership class. Don't give up First-Time home buyers, Virginia has programs to help you.
Amazingly as we have stated earlier in our blogs, the housing market in Virginia is different than other places. People are buying homes and many listing agents have a number of offers on one home, especially so on foreclosed homes. Virginia's economy is robust. Compared with other states in the country, Virginia's economy is among the strongest. There is a low unemployment rate which is supported by the Virginian companies that support the Federal Government. There is also the fact that Virginia's foreclosure rate is half that of the nation's rate of foreclosures. While the number of foreclosures across the nation have risen it is clear that Virginia's housing market has not risen as high.